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Rami Beracha is the writer for this blog. The focus is on venture capital. Rami Beracha co-founded Sosa.

Communication issues are a major problem. It’s like an open-air minefield. It starts just seconds after our first contact with someone and ends with an impressive explosion…

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We make the biggest error of thinking that we are fully aligned with the expectations of our partners. There is one aspect, however, that we are completely in alignment with our partner on the other hand – he never misses an opportunity to expand the gap between expectations. …. There is no one to warn us of the upcoming confrontation.

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There are a myriad of causes that can cause miscommunications. Square personalities are more likely miscommunicate frequently with liberal personalities. Aggressive personalities may have difficulty aligning expectations with passive individuals. It is simple to identify as everyone can tell squared from moderate and passive from aggressive.

But, they may not be aware that they are so different. Think of the personality gap. Nobody has ever noticed it and warned others about it, or investigated it…NOT FREUD! !

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Let me introduce you ladies and gentlemen to an entirely new kind of personality we all have The FULL CIRCLE personality versus those of the HALF-CIRCLE personalities. !

Note: A behavior guideline – when you read the next analysis, look for which of the two personalities most accurately describes you as well as attempt to determine who your partner in life is. If you discover that you’re of two different types – as the Bono sings “we are one but we’re different” – then you should be extremely happy as you may have just discovered the root-cause for many of your differences! If you’re on the other side, you are of the same kind I’m sorry, but I’m not able to help you understand why your relationships look like shit…

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Now we are…

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Two types of human beings exist. Certain people are “full-circle” that is an independent individual who feels perfectly at home by him. Yes, he needs to be around someone else, and he’s in search of one. Absolutely! It’s true! … However, he will not be able survive without a suitable partner. He wants to spend his entire life with his love and is hoping to be able to complete his circle.

Half-a-circle-shaped people comprise the other half of humanity. They’ll never let go of the idea once they’ve found their unhappy lover. They’ll try to physically join their victim in a happy circle. The Halves will never compromise their affection for one another. They will stare at each with the same gaze in the distance, and then rest of their lives. Nothing less intimate will fulfill their desire to be integrated with the other half and create one whole.

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One interesting differentiator between these two types is the decision to let go a partner. The whole circle is likely to be able to let go of a person that has lost their chemistry quickly. The half-a–circle’ types on the other hand redefine the concept of ‘having chemistry’ with their partners to be: ‘I’m holding onto this B..ST..RD. until I can replace him correctly’.

Imagine the amazing dance that occurs between the “half-a circle” and a full-circle. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. Problem is, he made the Half move out of his comfort zone …… The Half is aware that the Full was making an innocent error, so the Half takes a second step backwards.. But the Half is soon upset and takes an even bigger and more aggressive step.. They don’t know why, but they lack proper terms and are unable to explain it. So they go to the wrong places. If they had known that one is Half and the other is Full it could have saved them …

There isn’t any single conclusion, there are a few steps you can adopt.

1. Discover who you really are

2. Find out more about your friend

3. Recognize that there’s a significant difference.

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3. Be respectful of the differences!

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One thing to remember is to live and enjoy life.