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Rami Beracha writes about the venture capital world. Rami is co-founder of Sosa.

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Miscommunication is a big issue. It’s almost like an open-air minefield. It starts a second after the initial interaction with another person, and concludes with a massive explosion…

The most common mistake we make is to think that we’re completely in sync in our expectations of each side without trying to figure out what our counterparts expect from us. One thing is for certain however: our partner doesn’t miss any opportunity to increase this expectation gap . No one is there to inform us about the imminent confrontation.

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There are a variety of possible causes of miscommunications. Many of them stem from the differences in our personalities. Square people are more likely to miscommunicate more than liberal people, while aggressive personalities may have difficulty aligning their expectations with those of passive individuals. This is easy to recognize and everyone is aware of that they are squared from moderate and passive from aggressive.

What if they are very different and they don’t recognize that. Think about if there is an individual gap. No one has ever discovered it or warned about it, investigated it…NOT even been frightened! !

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Let me introduce to you, gentlemen and ladies an entirely new kind of personality we have in common with the FULL-CIRCLE persona versus people from the HALF circle! !

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Note: A behavior guideline as you read the coming analysis look for which of the two personalities describe you best as well as look for out which one of your friends is. If you realize that you’re different kinds, then you should be satisfied. This could be the reason for many of your differences. If however, you are of the same type, then I’m sorry but I’m unable to help you comprehend why your relationships are nothing but shit…

Here we are…

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Humans can be divided into two distinct groups. There are those who are “full-circle” type, a self-contained person that feels totally natural to be alone. Sure, he’s required to be around someone else, and he’s in search of one. Absolutely! It’s all true! … However, he’ll never be able to survive without the right companion. He would like to spend his entire life with his love and is determined to complete his circle.

The “half-a circle” type is the other face of the human race. (No this isn’t a the full-circle type that was damaged in the birth). Once they’ve found the miserable creature, they won’t let it go. To form a joyful circle, they nearly join with the victims… but don’t let them do this absurdity of living side-by-side! The Halves aren’t going to compromise their love for each other. They will stare at each other in the same way in the distance, and then rest of their lives. They won’t accept something less intimate to satisfy their desire to be integrated with the other half and make a complete.

One interesting distinction between these types is the decision to let go a partner. The full circle will typically let go relatively quickly from an individual he no longer has his chemistry with. Half-circles on the other side will redefine the notion of having an chemistry’ with their partner to be: ‘I’m holding the B..ST..RD. until I can replace him correctly’.

Imagine the incredible dance that occurs that occurs when two “half a-circle” and a “full-circle” are trying to make each other, without being aware of their differing geometrical shapes. The Half is smiling and makes two steps forward. The Full considers this unwanted invasion somewhat frightening. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. The issue is that he accomplished this by taking the Half out of his comfortable zone . As the Half thinks that the Full made an innocent mistake and took another step forward, the Half becomes annoyed and take a step in the opposite direction.. The Full.. Half.. and the Half are all pissed off. Both understand why, but aren’t using the correct terminology. They aren’t able to properly express their feelings, so they search at the wrong things. They could have saved their own lives by being aware that one is Half and the other is Full.

While this piece is not meant to be a complete guideline, there are some steps you could take.

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1. Find out who you really are

2. Learn about your partner

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3. Recognize the difference.

3. Respect the distinction!

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One conclusion is: Live and let life.