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Rami Beracha writes about the world of venture capital. Rami Beracha co-founded Sosa.
Communication issues are a major problem. It is a minefield that we have created. It begins just a second after the first contact with someone and ends with a spectacular explosion…
We make the most common mistake of thinking that we are completely in line with our partners’ expectations. There is however one thing we can almost always are in agreement on: he won’t miss an opportunity ….to increase the expectations gap We are not alerted by anyone.
There are many possible sources of miscommunications. Most are due to the differences in our personalities. Individuals with squares are likely to confuse those who are liberal, while individuals who are aggressive will have a hard time aligning expectations with those of passive people. But this is easy to recognize – we know that liberal is squared, and aggressive from passive.
But, what is the likelihood that they’re so different and they don’t recognize it. It is possible that there is a personality gap, which we aren’t aware of. It has never been discovered by anyone and warned of it, or investigated it…NOT even EVER FREUD! !
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Let me introduce you, ladies and gentlemen, to the new type of personality that we all have: the FULL CIRCLE personalities in contrast to the half-circular personalities. !
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Be aware that this is not a form of the guidance for your behavior. After reading the following analysis, try and discover which personality best describes your personality. Also you should determine who your partner in real life. If you discover that you are of different types and you are not happy. It could be the reason behind the differences you have. If you’re of the opposite kind, I’m sorry I can not assist you in understanding the reasons why your relationships look like a mess.
Let’s get going…
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There are two kinds of human beings human beings. There are those who are “full-circle’ who are a self-contained person who is completely at home all by him. Sure, he requires an accomplice, yes, he wants a partner, and yes he is in continuous search of a partner. Absolutely! Absolutely! … However, he will have to live without the perfect partner until he gets it. He is determined to spend his entire life with his partner and is determined to make it to the end of his circle.
The other group is the “half-acircle” kinds. Once they have found the awful creature, they will not let go! They’ll try to physically integrate their victim to create one happy circle. The Halves don’t want to compromise on anything less than staring at each other from a distance of zero throughout their lives. Nothing less intimate will give them the desire to connect with one another and form one whole.
A notable differentiator between these two types is the choice to let go of a partner. If a partner has lost chemistry within the circle will be let go in a natural way by the entire circle. The ‘half-a-circle’ types however will redefine the meaning of having mutual chemistry with their companions as ‘I’m hanging on to this B..ST..RD until I can replace him with a proper upgrade’.
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Imagine the incredible dance that occurs when two “half a-circle”, and a ‘full-circle” attempt to compete without being aware of their different geometrical shapes. The Half smiles and moves two steps forward. The Full finds this unwanted invasion a bit scary. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. Problem is, he made the Half move out of his familiar area …… The Half realizes that the Full has made an innocent error, so the Half takes a second step backwards.. However, the Half quickly gets angry and takes an even bigger and more aggressive step.. They can understand why, but since they don’t have the right terminology they can’t adequately explain their confusion and head towards the wrong direction. If only they knew that one half is Half and the other one is Full, it could have saved their lives …
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There isn’t a single answer to this essay. However, there are a few action items:
1. Find out who you are.
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2. Find out more about your partner
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3. Be aware of the difference.
3. Respect the difference!
In reality, there’s only one conclusion.
