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Rami Beracha’s blog on the venture capital market. Rami is also Co-Founder at Sosa.

Miscommunication is a serious problem. It can be a minefield and is entirely our responsibility. It starts a second after making contact with another person and then ends with an astonishing explosion…

We make the biggest mistake of thinking that we are fully aligned with the expectations of our partners. There’s one aspect, however, that we are completely in accord with our partner in – he also doesn’t miss an opportunity to expand the gap in expectations. …. There’s nobody to inform us of the imminent clash.

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There are many causes of communication issues. They are usually related to our personalities. People with square personalities tend to be more susceptible to miscommunication more than liberal people, while aggressive personalities may have difficulty aligning their expectations with the expectations of passive people. It is simple to identify as everyone can tell that they are squared from liberal and passive from aggressive.

What if they’re completely different? It is possible that there an in-between between them that exists, but we don’t know about it. It has never been discovered or been warned of or studied it. !

I’d like to introduce you, ladies and gentlemen to an entirely new kind of personality we all have The FULL CIRCLE personality as opposed to the HALF-CIRCLE people. !

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Note – A behavioral guidance as you read the coming analysis look for which one of the two personalities most accurately describes you and also look for out which one of your friends is. If you find out that you belong to two distinct kinds, as Bono states “we’re two, but not the same”, then you should be content. It is possible that you have discovered the root-cause of some of the differences between you! If however, you’re two of the same type, then I’m sorry that I’m unable to explain the reasons why your relationships look horrible.

So here we go…

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Humans are split into two categories. A few of us fall under the “full-circle” category which refers to a person that can be completely independent and doesn’t believe that the need for to have a partner. Yes, he needs to be with someone, and he’s looking for one. Absolutely! All true … But, he can survive without the perfect partner until he finds one. Once he’s found the one he wants, he would like to live the rest of his life, in a relationship with his – hopefully full circle of a partner.

The “half-a circle” type is the other face of the human race. (No this isn’t a full-circle that was damaged during the delivery). They won’t let go once they’ve found their unhappy companion. To create an encircling circle, they will try to join their victim physically. The Halves will not compromise on their desire to staring at each other from a distance that is zero for the rest of their lives. It’s impossible for them to feel more intimate than that.

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A fascinating observation between the kinds is the way they choose to part ways with their partner. Someone who has lost chemistry within the circle will be dismissed naturally by the whole circle. Half-circles however they will redefine the concept of ‘having mutual chemistry with their partners and say ‘I’m keeping this B..ST..RD until I can replace him using a suitable upgrade’.

Imagine the amazing dance between the “half-a circle” and the full circle. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. The issue is that he has stepped out of his comfortable zone …. and while the Half was sure the Full made an innocent mistake The Half starts to get angry and takes a step in the opposite direction. They know why, but because they don’t know the proper terms to explain their rage and go to the wrong places. They could have avoided their own misery by knowing the distinction between Half and Full.

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While there’s no one solution, there are a few actions you can do.

1. Learn who you truly are

2. Learn about your partner

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3. Be aware that there’s a significant difference.

3. Respect this distinction!

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Let’s be honest and say that there is only one conclusion Let’s live and let go.