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The issue of miscommunication is very significant. It’s like an open-air minefield. It begins just a second after making the first contact with another person and ends with a spectacular explosion…

The biggest error we make is that, with no good reason, we almost always assume that we are in complete agreement with both sides’ expectations without even trying to get our partner’s brain to determine what his expectations of us are. One thing we do agree on is that our friend is not afraid to expand this expectation gap ….. There’s nobody to warn us about the coming confrontation.

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There are numerous factors that can lead to communication issues. The squared personality is more likely than liberal personalities to communicate poorly, while individuals who are aggressive may have difficulty aligning expectations with passive. This isn’t difficult to recognize – we all know the difference between liberal and squared, and active from passive.

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What if they were very different? Think about if there is a gap in personality. This isn’t something anyone has investigated, warned of, or discovered. !

Let me introduce you, gentlemen and ladies an entirely new kind of personality that we all share The FULL-CIRCLE personality and those from the HALF circle! !

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Note: This analysis provides behavioral guidance. Find out what personality best represents your personality and then determine what your relationship partner’s personality is. If you realize that you’re two different people – as Bono says, “we can be one but not exactly the same”, – you should be very happy as you might have found the cause of some of your differences. If, however, you are both of the same kind I’m sorry to say that I’m unable to provide a reason for the reason why your relationships appear so awful.

We are now…

Two types of human beings exist. There are those who are ‘full-circle’ types who are self-contained and feels totally natural to be completely by themselves. He does want to connect with other people and, sure, he’s always seeking an individual to share his experiences with. Absolutely! It’s all true! … However, he cannot survive without his dream companion until he finds one. He will live his life in a relationship with the person he is going to marry once the time comes to find one.

Other people are the “half-acircle” kinds. And once they have found the terrible creature, they will not give up! They will move to almost physically integrate with their victim to create one happy circle… and don’t give them this bullshit of living shoulder to shoulder! The Halves will not relinquish their desire to staring at each one from a distance of zero for the rest of their lives. Nothing less intimate will satisfy their urge to integrate with one another and form an entire.

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The choice to let go is an everyday occurrence. The whole circle will typically let go of a partner who has lost chemistry very quickly. Half-circle people, however, redefine what ‘having mutually chemistry with their partner is referring to – ‘I’m holding on to this B..ST..RD until I can safely replace them with a proper upgrade’.

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Imagine the incredible dance that happens when the “half” and “full” circle try to make each other their partner. They are not aware of their different perspectives. The Half takes two leaps forward, far from the comfort zone of his Full, who considers the abrupt invasion of his personal space too scary. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. He forced the Half out of his comfortable zone . Even though the Half thinks that the Full made an innocent wrong move, and he kindly compensated by making another step forward, the Half becomes more concerned and begins to get angry. The Full and the Half know why but lack proper language. They can’t properly explain their frustration, and so they search for the wrong things. They could have escaped by knowing the distinction between Half and Full.

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While there is no one answer, there are many actions that can be taken.

1. Find out who you really are.

2. Find out more about your partner

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3. There is a distinction.

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3. Respect different opinions!

One conclusion could be drawn”Live and let live..