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Rami Beracha writes about the world of venture capital. Rami is co-founder of Sosa.
Communication issues are a major problem. It’s a minefield that we’ve have created. It starts a second after the initial interaction with someone and ends with an incredible explosion…
We make the most common mistake of thinking that we are fully aligned with our partners’ expectations. One thing is certain however: our partner doesn’t miss any chance to expand this gap . And we don’t need anyone to warn us about the upcoming conflict.
There are many reasons behind confusion. They usually are related to our personality. Individuals with squares are likely to be misinformed by those who are liberal, while individuals who are aggressive will have a hard time aligning expectations with those of passive people. It is simple to identify as everyone can tell that they are squared from moderate and passive from aggressive.
But, what is the likelihood that they’re so different, only they cannot recognize it. There an in-between between them, but we don’t know about it. There is no one who has noticed it, warned others about it, investigated it…NOT FREUD! !
Let me introduce you, ladies and gentlemen, to the new type of personality that we all have the FULL CIRCLE characters as opposed to the HALF-CIRCLE personalities. !
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Note : This is a guide for behavior. After reading the following analysis attempt to determine the personality that best describes you. Additionally, you should find out who your partner is in real life. If you discover that you’re distinct types – like Bono sings “we are all one, but we are not the same” You should be thrilled because you might have discovered the cause of the differences between you! If, on the other hand, you are similar to one another, then I am sorry, but I can’t help you understand why you have relationships that seem so bad.
And here we begin…
Rami Beracha
Two groups of humans are referred to as human. There are two types of human beings: the ‘full circle’ type, who is totally self-contained and is completely comfortable being by themselves. Yes, he needs a partner, yes that he would like to have a partner and yes he is in perpetual search of a partner. Absolutely! All true … But, he can’t live without his dream partner until he locates one. He will live his life side by side with the person he is going to marry once the time comes to find one.
The “half-a circle” type is the other side of humanity. (No, it’s not full-circle , but it was damaged during the delivery). And once they have found the miserable animal, they do not let them go! To create a happy circle, they’ll try to integrate their victim physically. The Halves won’t accept anything less than looking at one another from zero distance. Their desire to merge with their partner and make a complete unit can only be satisfied by things that aren’t as intimate.
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A fascinating observation of the two types is the decision to leave a partner. The whole circle will typically be the first to let go of a companion with whom they have lost chemistry very quickly. The half-circle types however, will redefine the definition of having chemistry mutually with their partners as ‘I’m holding on to this B..ST..RD, , until I can replace him with a proper upgrade’.
Imagine a dance in which the half-circle and the full circle are trying to please their partner. The half is able to take two steps forward past the comfortable zone. This unexpected invasion into his personal space is slightly daunting. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. But the problem is that he did the Half move out of his familiar area …… The Half realizes that the Full has made an error that was not his fault, and the Half takes a second step backwards.. However, the Half soon becomes upset and takes an even bigger and more aggressive step.. They cannot explain their pain and are unsure of the reason. It would be a lot easier for them to live if they knew the difference between Half and Full.
This essay doesn’t have an end-to-end conclusion. However, it does contain a few actions items.
1. Find out who you are.
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2. Find out about your friend
3. Recognize that there is a distinction.
3. Respect the distinction!
One of the conclusions is to live and let life.
