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It’s a big problem when people misunderstand. It’s a hazard we’ve created. It begins one second after the initial encounter with another person, and concludes with an amazing explosion…

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The biggest error we make is that, for no reason at all, we always assume that we are in complete agreement with the expectations of both sides without trying to discern our partner’s mind to figure out what his expectations from us. We’re almost always in total alignment with our partner except for one aspect : he doesn’t take advantage of the opportunity to widen this expectation gap . There’s no one to inform us of the upcoming confrontation.

There are many possible sources of miscommunication. Many of them stem from differences in our personalities. The squared personality is more likely than liberal individuals to miscommunicate, and aggressive personalities might have trouble in coordinating expectations with passive. This is simple to spot and everyone is aware of the difference between liberal and passive from aggressive.

What if they’re completely different? Imagine if there’s an individual gap. No one has ever detected it and warned others about it, studied it…NOT FREUD! !

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Ladies and gentlemen, I’d like to introduce you to a different type of personality that we all share: The FULL CIRCLE versus the HALF CIRCLE personality! !

Note – This analysis is designed to provide guidance for your behavior. As you read this analysis, you will be able identify the personality that best describes you. It is also possible to identify your life partner. If you realize that you are of different kinds and you are not content. This could be the reason for many of your differences. If you’re on the other side, you are similar to one another and you’re not sure why, I’m sorry to say that I can’t help you understand the reason why your relationships appear to be nothing but shit…

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We are now…

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There are two kinds of human beings that are called humans. Some of us can be divided into two categories: some are self-contained, while others are completely at home alone. It’s true that he wants to be with someone and he’s in search of one. Absolutely! It’s true! … However, he cannot survive without his dream partner until he finds one. And, once he has found one, he wishes to live his life, by his side with his hopefully complete circle – partner.

The “half-a circle” kind is the opposite aspect of humankind. (No, it’s not full-circle , but it was damaged during delivery). They’ll never let go of the idea once they’ve found their miserable lover. To create a happy circle, they will almost integrate with the victim… But do not let them go through the thing of living together! The Halves don’t want to give up anything less than starring one at the other from a zero distance throughout their lives. Their desire to be one with their spouse and make a complete unit can only be satisfied by something less intimate.

The decision to let go of someone is an ordinary occurrence. The full circle is likely to let go quickly of the partner with whom they’ve lost chemistry with. The half-circle’s on the other side will redefine the notion of having an chemistry’ with their partner to be: ‘I’m holding onto this B..ST..RD. until I can replace him in a proper manner’.

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Imagine to yourself the unbelievable dance that takes place when two people, a “half-a-circle” and a “full-circle” are trying to make one each other their partner, without being aware of their differing geometries: the Half joyfully takes two steps forward and over the comfortable zone of the Full who find this unexpected invasion into his own personal space a little too frightening. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. He forced the Half out of his comfort zone . Even though the Half thinks that the Full was innocent and made a mistake, and graciously compensated by taking another step ahead, the Half is more worried and starts to feel angry. They aren’t sure why, but they aren’t using the correct terminology and can’t explain the situation. So they go to the wrong areas. They could have avoided their own misery by knowing the difference between Half and Full.

While there is no one conclusion, there are a variety of ways to go about it.

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1. Find out more about who are

2. Find out more about your friend

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3. Make the distinction.

3. Respect that difference!

One conclusion can be drawn”Live and let live.