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Rami Beracha created this blog to explore the world of venture capital. Rami Beracha is co-founder of Sosa.
The issue of miscommunication is very significant. It’s a minefield we made. It starts one second after the first interaction with another person, and concludes with an amazing explosion…
The biggest error we make is to assume that we are completely aligned in our expectations of each other and not trying to guess what our partner expects from us. There is however one thing that we almost always are in agreement on: he won’t overlook the chance ….to increase the expectations gap. We have not been notified by anyone.
There are many possible sources of miscommunications. Many of them stem from differences in our personalities. People with square personalities are more likely to communicate in a misguided manner than liberal individuals, and individuals who are aggressive may have trouble matching their expectations to those of passive individuals. This is easy to identify: we all know what squared means.
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What if they’re totally different? You can imagine that there is a personality gap between them that exists, but we don’t know about it. No one has ever detected it and warned others about it, or investigated it…NOT be a FRAUD! !
I’d like to introduce you, ladies and gentlemen to the new type of personality that we all have the FULL CIRCLE characters as opposed to the HALF-CIRCLE people. !
Note: A behavior guideline as you read the following analysis, look for which one of the two personalities most accurately describes you and also attempt to determine who your partner in life is. If you realize that you’re different kinds – as Bono sings “we are all one, but we’re not the same” If you do, then be thrilled because you might have discovered the reason behind some of your differences! If however, you are of the same type, then I’m sorry but I’m not able to help you understand why your relationships are shit…
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Let’s get going…
Two categories of human beings can be described as human. There are two types of humans that are the full circle kind, who is completely self-contained and completely comfortable being by themselves. He does want to connect with other people, and the truth is, he’s always seeking someone to share his life with. Absolutely! All true … He is still able to survive without his ideal partner. He will continue living his life side by side with the person he is going to marry once they find one.
The “half-a circle” type is the other face of the human race. (No it’s not a full-circle that was damaged during the delivery). They are not going to let go of the miserable creature once they find it. To form a happy circle, they will try to integrate their victim physically. The Halves will not accept anything less than staring at one another from zero distance for the rest. It is impossible to make them feel more connected than that.
An interesting observation between the two types of people is the decision to leave an individual partner. The full circle is likely to be quick to let go of a partner they have lost chemistry with. The ‘half-a-circle’ types are, however they will redefine the concept of ‘having mutual chemistry with their partners and say ‘I’m keeping this B..ST..RD, , until I am able to replace him using a suitable upgrade’.
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Imagine the amazing dance when two “half a-circle” and a “full-circle”, are trying to create one another, without being aware of their distinct geometrical shapes. The Half is smiling and takes two steps forward. The Full is a bit frightened by this unwanted invasion a bit scary. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. But the problem is that he did the Half move out of his comfortable zone …… The Half realizes that the Full made an innocent mistake, so they take another step backwards.. But the Half is soon upset and takes a bigger, more aggressive step.. They aren’t sure why, but they lack proper terminology and can’t describe it. Therefore, they head to the wrong places. They could have saved their own lives knowing that one is Half and the other is Full.
While there’s no one conclusion, there are a few options you could adopt.
1. Find out who you are.
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2. Find out who you are with
3. Be aware of the difference.
3. Respect the difference!
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Actually, there is a conclusion: Live and let live.